Check out these 19 simple basic ways how to be cool in a normal relaxed way without being a twat:
1. Know how you come off to others - How you behave, look, smile, stand/sit, cloth and your body language are all important how your impression on others is good or bad.
2. Never think you are less than others. Everybody are born equal even though some are born with titles and gold up their a.. but this doesn’t make them more important than you. (or less)
3. Don’t be ashamed that you are unique so be yourself and be proud of your good sites.
4. Never have a needy behavior because this will make you come off as desperate and nobody likes this.
5. Have self-disclosure and reveal all your subconscious & conscious side to yourself
6. Never be ashamed of being different. After all, we are all different but most people use their entire life trying to be like everybody else.
7. Don’t be afraid to miss out of things you think are cool. Relax and have comfort in yourself.
8. Always hold your head up high and face people with your eyes on them, don’t steer at the ground and feel like a scared little puppy.
9. Keep yourself in shape and have more energy to face the world.
10. Smile to the world and it will smile back - If you smile to people, most will actually smile back and feel you are a cool person.
11. Always remember to have a proper hygiene. Take a shower daily, after workout or other physical activity. Brush your teeth and wear some deodorant but don’t overdo it.
12. Don’t be arrogant even though there are some people who is less smart than you.
13. Don’t take it personal because somebody doesn’t like you. You can’t be friends with everybody just like you don’t want to either.
14. Never doubt yourself and put off things. - Do it, instead of thinking about it.
15. Be cool with critique from people who knows you. You will have some bad or annoying sides, and who else but your friends and family who knows you, are better to educate you about the truth.
16. Speak up your opinion with confidence.
17. Help people who needs help or deserve your help. You should always be ready to help those who need help, because besides making a good deed, one day you or your loves one’s might be in same position.
18. Be funny - Everybody like a person who is funny.
19. Never be a prick to get attention or to come off as cool.